Many parents worry about keeping their children safe from cyber bullying and grooming by online predators like paedophiles. With so many horror stories around and so much unsuitable material just a few clicks away; how can parents ensure their children are able to enjoy and benefit from the internet's potential, yet protect them from the online dangers that also flourish within it?
The internet is a major part of twenty first century life; it is here to stay and for young people the importance of this virtual world is growing. It helps children become more independent and self reliant but it is also anonymous and instantaneous - which can be both bad and good.
Reference material can be found in seconds and communicating with friends is simple fun and cheap, but you also don't have to reach the top shelf to see pornography and it is not just the dubious looking character in the overcoat hanging around the park that you have to watch out for. Neither do children always access the internet from home in the company of responsible adults. They can go online at home, a friend's house, in school, a library, club, or cafe. Mobile phones and other hand held devices, even game consoles, can be connected to the Internet and used for chatting and other online interaction.
Children are inquisitive; eager to explore new horizons and relationships. Telling them not to use the internet because of the inherent dangers would be like stopping them going to school in case they are bullied or from crossing the road because they might get run over. They do however need to be told about both the benefits and dangers of cyberspace and learn how to be ‘street smart' in order to better safeguard themselves in any potentially dangerous situation. Maintain an ongoing dialogue about the possible dangers online, make sure your children feel that it is never too late to talk to you if they are worried, concerned or feel uncomfortable and that they realise they won't be banned from using the internet if a problem occurs.